Coll : Is all this over the vacation, or the build up of feeling taken advantage of? If it's the vacation, then I'd say sometimes you gotta roll with the punches. Have you already asked for that week off and received it / made plans for it? If so, I'd strongly consider telling them it's a no can do. If not, then you're probably stuck. As for the other stuff, I agree with my fore-posters. Don't do anything outside your job description at work, unless you really want to do it or will be recompensated for it. There are ways to say no to people nicely - I've had to learn that myself, and it's just like the old adage about bullies. They bully you until you don't let them any more. If you don't like being confrontational, then I suggest that you make plans for your free times / make a pretense of having plans for your free time.
/yeah, hi Peter....listen, we need to talk about your TPS forms.
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