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Originally posted by Fallon
I also think it's interesting how "cheaters" seem to understand that they won't do it again but not many other people seem willing to accept that. Before you judge me, walk a mile in my shoes to see how it feels to be me and I bet it could change your perception.
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I found this comment interesting because this is on both sides if your the one who cheated on someone else why should we walk in your shoes. It seems to me that most of the time the one who was cheated on is the victim. Imagine how that person felt when he/she found out that the person they put a lof of trust in broke that trust, and pretty much took you for granted. So this saying probably started out of spite, but for all you cheaters out there, can you walk a mile in our shoes and expect nothing less then a lot of anger and mistrust. To be honest I really hope I never have to walk in your shoes, and I hope you never have to walk in mine. The pain that it causes is way worse then the guilt that you guys feel. Plus once you are honest and truthful you get to let all that guilt go. But the person cheated on still has to live with it and possibly start felling the jealousy and doubt, that offten occurs after someone is cheats on you. So really what I am saying is take your own advice and walk in my shoes see how it feels to be me and I bet your perception will change.