First off... thank you so much for this thread Skettios! I had a philosophical moment last night and almost posted a thread for it. "Is there a woman out there, like me, who feels insecure and wants to be loved? Does she feel as inadequate as I do? Is there any chance of me meeting her?"
I've been lonely for a while. Some of the people who answered your thread said that love should not be seen as something to save someone and that it does not save you. I disagree.
I've been happiest in my life only when I was in love. I make friends and become close to women through friendship. After a while of trying to keep my feelings secret (I don't say anything but it may be easy for others to tell) the friendship turns into love.
My advice to you...Never Give Up Hope!
I have an athletic body with a likable personality, but I'm not an asshole. Thats why women aren't banging down my door. Be yourself, be patient, and you will get what you need.
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"the greatest trick the devil ever pulled, was making the world believe he didn't exist" -Kevin Spacey 'The Usual Suspects'
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