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i dislike almost any saying with all-inclusive words like "always" or "never" because there are exceptions to everything.
you cannot automatically judge someone who's cheated without knowing why they cheated. it's true, there are some people who cheat on their significant other's because they get a thrill out of trying to get away with it.. and these people are more probable to cheat no matter who they're with.
however, i'd like to give the benefit of the doubt to most cheaters and believe they cheated because, like nitrox said, they weren't truly into the relationship or as ratbastid said, they were young and didn't possess the will-power to resist temptation. of course, this doesn't give those people an excuse to cheat... but the point is that they realized it was wrong and know the consequences and pain it caused to them and their loved one, which actually makes them less likely to cheat ever again.
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