elwoodblues43, my spider sense tingles on this one. Several things to consider and they have all been brought up already:
The timing and reaction of your GF's kiss from the other dude seems way too coincidental. I think you are being naive about your girl.
What are you bawling for? Buck up camper. Men can cry, but this seems a bit overboard IMO.
You are a strong man for wanting to hold yourself in high standards by not ever cheating. This was not cheating. This was a tiny little mistake, unless you were possibly wanting that kiss from Danielle, then I would believe you feeling really bad about it. However, you say you told her NO and she still kissed you. I would be more pissed off at Danielle for doing that as opposed to feeling guilty for something you had no control over. (but, something tells me you might have temporarily "wanted" to see what it felt like for Danielle to kiss you)
I am not trying to bash you, just a few things seem a bit odd about the story.
Either way, I am glad you and your girl are cool now. Good luck.
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