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Sounds like a bad scene. If you are going to have a relationship with her it must be just you two. Right now you have a relationship of three, you, her, and the nutter that won't go away. I feel if she was really uncomfortable with his behavior and really commited to you, she would tell him to go away, for good. If she completely rebuked him he would eventually tire of making an ass of himself and fade away. As long as she continues to have ANY relationship with him she is feeding his hopes and just dragging out everyone's misery. I wouldn't stand for one minute some ex interfering with my relationship and neither should you. This guy has to be given the boot and she is the one that has to do it. I'm sorry to be blunt but maintaining friendships so soon after a break-up rarely work out and usually just cause everyone pain. You two need time to find out where your relationship is headed without the shadow of the past constantly intruding into your lives. If after sufficient time has passed she desired and could continue a friendship with him, fine. For right now though if you two are going to have a fighting chance he as to go, otherwise your just treading water waiting to go down.
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