well, first things first...
sounds like you and he need to have a talk about each other's expectations of your relationship and go from there... if you feel he isn't putting in enough effort, maybe you're not looking for the same things and that needs to be resolved before you can focus on making the long-distance part work. otherwise it's like trying to build a bookshelf using only scotch tape... it might hold together for a while, but eventually it will all fall apart.
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