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Originally posted by maleficent
What purpose would telling her serve? To clear your conscience? There's nothing to clear, you've done nothing wrong.
From what you've said, telling her would only hurt her, where's the honor in that? Telling her something that you know is going to devestate her?
Dr. Maleficent, knower of all things, tells you to go have a shot of Jack Daniels (only one, you're still underage), take a cold shower to clear your head, and breathe, and relax.
You've done nothing wrong, no reason to have anyone else hurting? Forgive yourself and move on.
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my take on this is that IF she ever found out from a third party, you'd be fucked. by not telling her in the first place, and her finding out from someone esle would tell her that you were hiding something from her. nomatter what you could say after she finds out she would still have this "is he hiding something from me still" mentality. and you dont want that. it'll end up being 10 times more worse if she found out from someone else.
so....by not telling her and keeping to to yourself, you may be able to just forget it ever happened. but shit like this can bite you in the ass. and by telling her you'd definately be hurting her, but things wouldnt nearly be as bad. its a 50/50 thing here....each has its pluses and minuses.
i'd tell her....and tell here the whole entire story. make sure she knows that you feel horrible (mention the crying) and you should be fine