how do you know your girlfriend will react so badly? the truth is, you don't... especially if you present it the right way. you obviously regret it and tried to prevent it and did almost everything you could to stay true to her and you know you'll never let it happen again... how could she hold that against you? the worst i see happening is that she'll tell you never to talk to danielle again, and that doesn't seem so bad since you didn't indicate you two were very close, merely "old work friends".
if you really think you'd feel better by telling her, then do it... just be honest and tell her not to react until she's heard the entire story.
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