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There are times you need to let things go and times you need to take action. This might be one of those times you need to take action.
For some reason or other, your girlfriend isn't capable of standing up to this guy. If you love her so much, then you need to take a more proactive role here. If the guy won't take a hint, then you should "convince" him a little more forcefully. Bring friends, if necessary.
The most important thing here is to communicate openly with your girlfriend. Find out from her what she really wants in this situation. If she wants to maintain her "friendship" with her ex, then you've got some serious thinking to do. There may be some pretty deep issues you need to deal with here.
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