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Old 06-14-2004, 01:21 PM   #2 (permalink)
maleficent
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Did you ask Danielle to kiss you? No
Did you lead Danielle on in any way? No
Did you ask for her to make advanced on you? No
Without smacking her upside the head, could you get away from her? Probably not.


If you were a woman, your hand would be held that you were assaulted, doesn't matter if it's someone that you knew or not. I imagine the word No was used by you? No means No, regardless of who says it, the male or female.

You did nothing wrong. Did you have a reason not to trust Danielle when you went over to her place?

You are not a scumbag at all, if you were, you wouldn't be this upset.

You need to believe yourself that you didn't do anything wrong, and if you can honestly tell yourself that, then what's the problem.

It was only a kiss right?

Is there any way your girlfriend would ever find out? Ie would Danielle tell her? It'd probably be better coming from you, but if the two don't know each other, then -- get on with your life and forget about it.
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