I've learned not to judge any situation that comes my way because I know it happened for a reason, and there is always "goodness" to it- even if it may be hard to see at the time. I do realize my feelings toward the situation, but value those feelings without judging and move on. Judging doesn't help anything- discovering your place in the situation and knowing that soon you will see the reason will help you see things of yourself that you didn't know existed.
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