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Holy shit dude, I could swear that I made this post because it's so accurate to what I went through. Minus the girlfriend having sex with the ex, but the rest is freakishly similiar.
Your girlfriend won't tell this guy to fuck off because she wants the attention. She might not straight up tell you this, but deep down she really enjoys the attention. I don't know what to tell you about this aspect.
What I do know is that if you don't do something about this situation now, you will deal with it for the rest of your relationship. I was dealing with this shit from day one up until my ex-girlfriend dumped me at the 4.5 year mark. That's a long time to have some limp dick causing trouble.
You need to find out exactly how she feels about this dude, and if she truly wants him gone, you need to grow some big ole testicles and tell this guy to fuck off. But this won't work if she still likes the idea of him being in her life.
Sorry I can't be more helpful. Truthfully, I never found the solution myself.
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