Can she honestly say that she wants him out of her life? Or do the good times make up for the bad?
Relationships shouldn't dictate who a person is friends with, however, unless it's mutually agreed upon, friends don't call up friends to get laid. I am friends with a few ex's, but it's frienship nothing more. He wants more than just friendship with her, and she doesn't seem to want to say no.
The ex sounds a bit manipulative, which is a dangerous type of person, he wants what he wants, and doesn't care who or what he hurts. If I were her, I'd cut him lose, now, and see how it goes for a while.
Good Luck.
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