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Thanks for the replies male and pigglet. She's definitely aware of how I feel. I don't like to bring the subject up very often, because like I said before we both get into a bad mood because of it. I'm completely 100% honest and open with her about everything and how I feel about it. I fully intend to show her what I posted here, she likes tilted as much as me anyway.
You know, the I realised something while reading over my post. When she is nice to him and isnt blunt with him, he's nice to her too. But as soon as she is truthful, or even stands up for her herself, or disagrees with something he says - he treats her like garbage. They went through seme tough times in their relationship and he blames it all on her. So I think part of it is - if she's nice to him then he won't be nasty and tell her how he really feels about it. And she doesn't want to hear the nasty stuff and I don't blame her for that.
I would do absolutely anything for her, I adore her so much. Our relationship is great aside for this. She is happier than she has been in years and the same goes for me. She means the world to me and I just hate to see us both stressed over this because it really shouldn't be an issue - but unfortunately it is.
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