A third person can't cause trouble in the relationship, if trouble's not there to begin with.
Living together after 3 1/2 months?
I see a huge warning flag that she wasnt honest with you in the beginning of your relationship, and probably wouldn't have fessed up if you hadn't found out. Is she being honest with you now?
Your girlfriend doesn't sound like she wants to let go of the ex. She might love you and not him any more, but there's still an attraction to him that she likes. The attention maybe?
Why does she still communicate with him? Why does she answer his email, why does she take his calls, why doesn't she tell him that she's no longer with him and is with you. Being polite is one thing, but she has to think about you too.
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