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The weight might not matter to the more enlightened ladies of the TFP, but every one of these posts I've seen from the guys on this forum that center on this issue or something like it mentions that the poster knows he's overweight. It might not be important to some of the females, but I definately think that it can help with building self confidence. Maybe it's narcisistic, mabye it's superficial - I think it's just natural. It also gives a concrete goal and visual results. I know it's worked for a lot of people I've known...I don't think people need to try to live up to some crazy expectations of physical perfection, but almost everyone feels better about themselves when they are exercising - whether they actually look more tone or not.
As y'all have said, it all comes down to confidence in who you are, and also (usually) in the confidence to be nice and outgoing to others. Best of luck.
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