I'm with you, Raeanna ^^^^^
My husband wasn't (and isn't) skinny, athletic and buff or anything like that. He got my attention through his wit, intelligence, personality AND SELF CONFIDENCE. So please have some hope, all of you thinking you're doomed! There are women like us out there who are focused on more important things than the outside package. Have a little confidence, babe!
Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to read in your thread! Feel free to ignore me of course.