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This may sound a little harsh, but somebody's got to say it. Would you honestly be attracted to a girl who is "overweight?" Let's just call a spade a spade and say "fat." Sure, you may say that you don't have a problem with a girl being fat, but we all know better. I know there are a few girls out there who would be attracted to a fat dude, but they are few and far between, and I've noticed that they aren't exactly slim and fit themselves.
There is really no reason to be fat. What are you doing in your spare time? You don't have a girlfriend to waste time with, so you should be hitting the gym or running or doing something athletic. Saying that you'll always be fat is just bullshit. If you spent a few months in a concentration camp I seriously doubt you'd be fat. Don't make excuses. Lose the weight and watch what you eat.
I've never had much luck with women myself. I'm very physically fit, at least average in looks, I'm well-educated, and I'm on a career path that will lead to much success and money. My only girlfriend of 4.5 years just broke up with me because her "career is more important" than I am. It sucks, but fuck it. I was honestly going to marry this girl within the next year, but shit changed in an instant. I've learned that you can't define yourself or your happiness by a relationship with another person.
I know I'll find it very hard to be in another relationship in the future, despite everything I have going for me. I'm pretty quiet and introverted, and I don't take the "hit on anything with a vagina and a decent face" approach to dating. I asked a few girls out before my girlfriend, and I got shot down real bad. As a result, I've resigned myself to waiting until a girl directly asks me out on a date. The odds are definitely against me in this respect, but I'm OK with it. I'm extremely lonely too, but you can't always get what you want. You just have to live with it.
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