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a relationship shouldnt define you, it should only be part of your life. if you have the attitude that, "oh if only i could meet someone then i would be happy / confident / lovable / etc / etc /", then you are really not giving yourself a lot of credit.
be comfortable in your own skin, realise that you are a unique individual with just as many strengths (and weaknesses) as everyone else.
only from this position of internal self confidence can you move on to develop a solid relationship with somebody, as equal partners.
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"People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can't find them, make them."
George Bernard Shaw
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