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Originally posted by Skettios
No matter how hard I try, fundamentally I'll always be unlovable.
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I believe this attitude is one of the sources of your problem. It is probally a self fulfinning prophesy (sp?).
You should pick yourself up a copy of "The 7 habits of highly effective people", by Stephen R. Covey. I've just started reading it myself. I think part one, "Paradidms and Principles" may be of particular interest to you.