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I feel your pain. I've been in the friends list of every girl I liked, and sometimes not even that far. I must exude something that makes girls turn away and choose someone else.
Don't feel bad about being fat. I'm pretty thin, and it doesnt do anything for me. Attitude is everything. I try to be myself, but I guess it's not good enough to score girls. I wouldn't say I'm ugly either but average.
I've learned that maybe dating isn't so important. I tended not to date early on and maybe I missed developing girl achieving techniques along the way. Reagrdless, I can go on most of the time and life my life the way I have been because I have come to realize it does no good to dwell too long on what I don't have.
When I feel the hurt, I focus on the negative aspects of the girls I want. Putting them on pedestals has typically made me feel like a loser when they are just regular people. It may sound stupid, but it lessens the effect for me at least.
I suggest finding an approach. Maybe you just haven't found the right method yet. Better still, maybe it's circumstance that worked against you. Otherwise, maybe your life would be better single. An answer will come to you eventually.
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