Not a flame: I seriously hope that you are getting help for your anger issues before you think you will be able to help anyone else. Psychology is a noble profession, but you best be sure that you have your own house clean before you start working with others on theirs.
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Why is it unreasonable to expect a young adult to hold a job? Why is it unreasonable to expect a young adult who has graduated from high school to start to pull his/her weight in the family.
Do you know how many adults, with families to support, and mortagages to pay, and other things, work fulltime AND are also go to school to further educate themselves? Full time student who can't work is a lame excuse.
To be honest, it gets a little old hearing young adults complain about rules. Rules exist where ever you go, at every age, a young adult may have a curfew now, that's good practice later in life when that same young adult has to get up for work.
A lot of psychology is about listening, you have two ears, one mouth, you should listen twice as much as you talk, instead of deciding that everyone else is wrong, how about giving people a chance, it's what you want other adults to do for young adults.
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Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.
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