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Originally posted by NeoSparky
The general feeling I'm getting here from everyone is that by asking a girl out, your asking her to be your girlfriend, As such the statement of "if she leaves her current BF for you then she'll leave you for someone else." What if your just asking her out for the sake of going out? From what I've expierenced in life going out on a date is completly different then having a meaningful relationship with someone. Yes, generally one thing leads to another but thats something you can decide after a few dates or so.
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i can imagine the conversation:
'it's ok mate, i'm only taking her out for a nice meal, i'm not asking her out or anything'
"ahhh, well thats all fine and dandy then, heres the keys to my car, give her a nice night"
Anyone consider that possibly the guy the girl's going out with may possibly object to you asking her out, even for a meal?
I have no problem if the guys an ass hole, but if he's a nice bloke, then it's an invitation to a royal ass-kicking.