Well, I was at a disadvantage before I started working, I already had kids. Here is what I do... I work when needed, as expected and above. But I always put family first. If I have something to do with the family, that takes priority. So far, I haven't missed out on anything. But I'm also in a rut, and going no where fast at work, but has nothing to do with my family.
Being in a relationship takes work in itself, and you can never stop working at it.
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