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Originally posted by SecretMethod70
Point being, just because someone thinks it's acceptable behavior and, thus, would fully accept being the recipient of it as well, doesn't mean the other 99% of society would deem it acceptable. Look at this thread for example - there are really only 2 people posting who have any strong feelings towards it being acceptable.
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my personal thoughts on this are that if the girl is with or has been with a buddy of mine within the last year, then the girl is off limits. End of story.
If she's with another guy whom I dont know, then I go for it. No harm in asking. The absolute worst that can happen is to be turned down. And if I'm not turned down, then it's party time.
And from what I've gathered from women on here and in real life, they are flattered by being asked out. Regardless of if they are with someone or not. So in this case really the worst that could happen is to make someone smile for being asked out. Unless of course you (whomever) can't handle rejection and take it out on others or something.