My last girlfriend did the same to me. We were together for three years and she cheated on me three times. I think that eventually, me being concerned that she was going to cheat on me drove her to do it; when she'd hang out with other guys, I would go crazy, and I probably planted the idea in her head of cheating on me by constantly ensuring that she hadn't. So my advice to you is this: if she's going to cheat on you, she's going to cheat on you. Instead of worrying about it, simply tell yourself that if it happens, you'll deal with it. Otherwise, live like nothing's wrong. The further away from your mind you can get the issue, the less of an issue it is.
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-Slauncha
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