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My mother always told me 1) Only sleep with someone if you think you'd marry them. 2) Never marry someone before you've slept with them.
I think sexual compatibility is extremely important to a relationship and I followed my mom's advice, however: what if something happens to you or your SO and you can't have sex anymore? Would you leave them because of it? Probably not if you truly love them.
So love can survive without sex, and probably could also survive with incompatible sex if it's strong enough. I guess that's what those virgins are all banking on. But wouldn't it be even more fulfilling if you had strong love AND awesome sex? Why take the chance when you can see from the beginning if it's going to be spectacular?
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Thought for the day: Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes, and it's up to the women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.
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