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Originally posted by SecretMethod70
You're right. It's her decision. And when a guy asked out my girlfriend at the time, she told him no, was DEEPLY offended, and told me about it for that very reason. I wasn't pissed out of jealousy, or out of lack of trust for my girlfriend, I was pissed because of the guy's display of blatent disrespect and social worth.
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Then I apologize. Yes, it is reasonable to be pissed for some guy treating your girlfriend like trash, but does not justify an asskicking unless he persists. People, in general, are rude to strangers.
There are cases in which the guy honestly has no clue whether she has a boyfriend are not, and the boyfriend is jealous. There are cases where the guy will mention it once, and never again. It always isn't a clear cut case for anger.
I've seen the jealous boyfriend routine way too many times. More often than not, there really is nothing to worry about.
Sorry for a long post, but...
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Originally posted by toxic515
I'm not at all clear why it has to be "cheating" There's no harm in asking. You don't know what that relationship is like, and if it's not your friend, then you certainly have no obligation to the other male. If she says yes, I think I'd wait until I knew that she'd chosen to break it off with the other guy before I got in very deep. Fact is, just because she's been going out with someone for a while doesn't mean that she's committed or promised anything, and without that information, I'd have to say don't assume. Ask.
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This goes hand in hand with my statement "People in general are rude, especially to strangers". You do have no obligation to the other male, unless he is your friend. She has no obligation to pay attention to you whatsoever.