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I think that as time passes, it will become more of a burden to him, and the lack of confidence or knowledge will become a vicious cycle that only leads to more and more failures. I think as time passesm he'll have a harder time finding someone who he can honestly go to (that he'll have a connection with) and ask her to show him the ropes. he may just end up having a string of bad sexual encounters because he cant find someone willing to work with him. a couple of years ago, I met a girl who I thought was a grade-A chick. I asked her out (mind you, I'd been hinting at this for about 4 months). she turned me down, so I pretty much ended up looking for whatever I could find...never did find any other girl that was worthwile. the grade-A girl and I became progressively better friends, and one summer before I dropped her off, she told me to stop down the street from her house, and she started tickling me and the classic moment arose to kiss....but I didnt, I just backed away. There were too many questions in my mind about it, simply because i had never done it before. (no sh_t, I was 17 and never kissed a girl)
anyway, one day she was talking about how great of a "package" I was, I had the smarts, the looks, the money, the humor but she still wouldnt date me. she said she only had "flings" I told her fine, lets have a fling. she taught me many valuable things, and she has done an immense service for me. turs out that she liked me and we're still dating...
Thats a really long winded story to say this: if he's not ugly, and there's nothing overtly wrong with him that would make you disgusted at having a few learning sessions with him, I think you will be doing his social life an immense favor. Its all a mental block and I think you are in the perfect situation to remove it for him. my girlfriend got me started with what she knew, and we both learned together from there. I feel much more confident around...well everyone I suppose and im still a virgin.
I'd say to help him out if you think he's a good guy.
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