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Originally posted by BooRadley
3 - She actually doesn't, and is giving you a "shit test" to weed out the beta males. This occurs far more often than one would think. You stand no chance with this girl if you aren't an asshole.
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Like I said, *IF* a girl is actually testing someone in that way, they only want to date assholes. In which case, as phred said, if all you're looking for is someone to have meaningless sex with and an absolutely empty relationship, go for it. Almost all of my good friends are female, and none of them do that. I would not have respect for anyone that would.
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It is in no way the 'askers' fault the girl cheats. He gives her the oppurtunity, but she makes the decision. You read that? HERS. Unless it is a case of rape, then that is a wholly different issue.
But, if you can't trust her, that is an issue between you and her, not between you and some guy that neither one of you know. She has to have accountability for her actions. She would be the one "cheating" in the scenario.
If the jealous boyfriend, who can't even trust his girlfriend, takes his insecurity out on you, then HE deserves to get the ass kicking. Not you.
In fact, if he threatens you, just call the cops, get him in jail and then do his ex girlfriend. But don't trust her.
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You're right. It's her decision. And when a guy asked out my girlfriend at the time, she told him no, was DEEPLY offended, and told me about it for that very reason. I wasn't pissed out of jealousy, or out of lack of trust for my girlfriend, I was pissed because of the guy's display of blatent disrespect and social worth.