No physical contact is <I>very</I> extreme. I understand the not wanting to until your wedding night, but not even kissing? That would be one very uncomfortable hotel room that night. I don't get it, as a society we need to get over the "purity" thing on your wedding. It doesn't make you any less of a person if you've fooled around or even had sex. I'm a fairly religious person, but consensual sex between two people that love each other is what it's all about. (Well, even sex between people that don't is pretty darn good too). They need to have some intimacy before hand to see if they are compatible or not.
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