Oh it certainly wasn't a substitute for an intimate experience, and we both knew that we didn't use the webcam because we aren't as comfortable in person.
I found my camcorder last night and in one of those 'I've got a project and I'm determined!' I decided that there <i>must</i> be a way to get it working as a makeshift webcam.
And I was certainly in control. I wasn't being used, we were just having a bit of fun. We're both studying for mid-year exams and we were both online at the same and relieved a bit of stress through the webcam
I would have gone over to her house to do it, but I'd had a glass of wine at dinner so I didn't want to drive.
It's not a substitute for our real intimacy, and we most likely won't be doing it again anytime soon. It was just a bit of fun. And I do trust her fully, I know there is absolutely zero chance of any of that footage ending up spread around the Internet.
She hasn't had much sexual experience before I came along and comes from a very conservative family, but on the phone immediately afterwards she said it was a liberating experience for her.
I recommend it, just for a laugh