i have to agree on the need for intimacy before marriage for most (but not all!)..
I find it becoming more and more difficult to even think of marrying someone who i don't know how we will feel about one another after having sex.
anymore, i dont think i could do it without having sex beforehand. i used to be of the mind that it depended on who i was with, but now I no longer think I can do it.
i basically believe this is something that is different for everyone. certain people can manage it, while others cannot. I think as time goes by, I am leaning more towards the latter.
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