HEY! It wasnt a flame, I was been honest! I really do believe that the physical side of the relationship is very important in forming "love", or a close bond.
I will happily admit that one (of the many) of the reasons I married my wife was because right from day one the sex was mind blowing, really incredible. Its very important to both of us that we can be intimate with each other, and we where very lucky that we clicked right away on that level, as well as on a "best friends" level.
So, from my point of view, marriage without any intimacy beforehand would be a game of russian roulette. Maybe I am highly sexed, but, thats my answer to your question.
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George Bernard Shaw
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