in addition to being curious, i'm also impatient... so last night i experimented with some spoons and my girlfriend. haha
the main advantage i found with the spoons is that they can be heated or cooled and then used... which can be fucking mind-blowing if used properly.
my girlfriend loves it when i rub ice on her, but an ice cube is way too cold to rub directly on that sensitive area... however a spoon dipped in cold water for a few seconds is much more tolerable and quite pleasurable. a spoon dipped in warm water is equally, if not more pleasurable. and when you use both alternately... well, just try it and report back.
it's pretty easy to use the spoon after heating or cooling... just place the back of it over her slit and rub up and down, side to side, in circles... fast short movements or slow long ones... just don't twist the spoon in your hand b/c you dont want the edges to catch on anything.
one final piece of advice... i don't recommend relying solely on this to get your girlfriend/mom/wife off. it may work, but i think it'd be more effective as a supplement to some more personal attention.
have fun!
