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Originally posted by Aladdin Sane
Please define how the friendship is one-sided.
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One-sided friendship - He tells me all his troubles. I listen. I won't solve his troubles for him, but will ask questions and keep asking questions until he gets the answers he needs.
He'll call me to share when good things happen to him.
He'll use my life experience as a sounding board for pretty much anything that goes on. I listen.
He really doesn't have a clue as to what goes on inside my head - not that he'd want to - it's a frightening place. And it's not that he's selfish, he'll ask questions, but anytime someone asks me something about me, if I don't want to talk, (I rarely do) I'll misdirect the questions back to him, so he's back to talking about himself.
Even though he's doing the asking, there's an extremely ethical side of me that says in some way I'd be taking advantage of him. For first time sex, especially, I really think that the people should be into each other, but that's the prudish side of me talking.