The opinions are interesting, quite interesting, and some folks make a compelling arguement both for and against. As soon as friend 2 told me what friend 1 was thinkin. (I wouldn't mind being thought of as the foxiest goddess ever - that'd make this older broad's day) There's no way I ever could.
Aside from the romantic part of my brain that pops up occassionally, that the first time it should be special. The first time should also have a willing participant and be completely and totally into him. I'm not. He's a friend. Any passion on my part would have to be faked and that's just not right for someone's first time. (Even though I could be quite the convincing actress).
Keep discussing - it's interesting...
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