I think most of us are guilty of these, I know the list seemed a check-a-thon for me. I survive by being an active and liberal self-forgiver.
I think one of the more salient pieces of mental health advice I've ever been exposed to was: that your emotions last much longer than your cognition. Thereby stating that if something makes you feel *anything* It's there a lot longer than the stimulus. I still remember and physically cringe from remembered embarrassments from YEARS back.
But alas, such is life.
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The sad thing is... as you get older you come to realize that you don't so much pilot your life, as you just try to hold on, in a screaming, defiant ball of white-knuckle anxious fury
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