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maleficent · 05-30-2004, 07:36 PM

Honestly - exactly what you wrote -- it's sort of a It's not you, it's me - -but you are both young, you both may want to see what else is out there. I honestly think as long as you have those strong thoughts, you'll never be able to be completely happy with her.

You are not ruling out what the future might bring, you are just thinking about what you want right now. It might be a little selfish, but to not allow you that, is wrong too. You aren't trying to hurt her, and this is going to be hard on you, cause she clearly means a lot to you.

Go your seperate ways for 6 months, no contact with each other, and then see where you are.

05-30-2004, 07:36 PM	#5 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	Honestly - exactly what you wrote -- it's sort of a It's not you, it's me - -but you are both young, you both may want to see what else is out there. I honestly think as long as you have those strong thoughts, you'll never be able to be completely happy with her. You are not ruling out what the future might bring, you are just thinking about what you want right now. It might be a little selfish, but to not allow you that, is wrong too. You aren't trying to hurt her, and this is going to be hard on you, cause she clearly means a lot to you. Go your seperate ways for 6 months, no contact with each other, and then see where you are. __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.