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I'm glad I made this post and ya'll can get your opinons out. I personally believe that there are situations that girls and guys get themselves into that they need to learn from. A lot of people run from their mistakes, in this case by abortions and all. But I feel that education and love in a family, household, as the girl/boy is growing up... I think that if the child is growing up in a very genergous, loving, abstenant (to a point...parents never let their children know they go beyond kissing on the cheek), trustworthy, alcohol and drug (cigs) free househould then you will find that just about all of those children will grow up making the right choices...
I don't want to make anykind of arguments with what I just said... so I'll clear it up a bit.
I see most of my friends that grew up in a house like mine... just as I described, and they don't have kids... aren't scum bags... and don't drink everyweekend fucking random guys. Most of the people I know in those households might go and have a drink... they might have sex, but they usually know what they are doing. And they aren't stupid like the other people I know... growing up in a household very similar to mine except their parents smoke... she ended up smoking and soon became a totally different person.
Yes things are different for pretty much everyone. I am just sharing and opinion.
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