maleficent

Long distance relationships can work, but it depends on the two people involved in the relationship. It's definitely not easy, it takes a lot of trust in your partner, and the ability to get thru a lot of lonely nights alone. If you are accustomed to seeing that person every day, or talking to that person every day, then no way will a long distance relationship work out in the long run.

You need to have a lot of independence, and the ability to not let yourself get all uptight about what they might be doing when they don't answer the phone when you call at 10:00pm.

If you "love her more than anything", let her go, find stuff to keep yourself occupied while she's gone, enjoy yourself while she's gone, and see how you both feel when she gets back.

It was said in another thread.... it's appropriate here...

If you love something, set it free, if it comes back, it's yours, if it doesn't, it was never meant to be.

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