The very first thing I learned about women... whatever you think she's pissed at... isnt what she's pissed at.
Something else you did she's still pissed over, but for some reason female-logic tells them to put that on hold and blew up over this.
1) Dont put up with this. She knows it's crap, you know it's crap. Call her on it. This will make her respect you more in the long run... after her initial reaction of getting really pissed off.
2) IMMEDIATELY after sit her down and figure out what she's really pissed at, and apologize profusely, take her out to dinner, and make sure to tell her not to pull crap like this again. Make sure she knows that if something is bugging her to come out and talk about it.
Now femenists here may say I'm being an asshole, but I'm a true gentilman. No one ever said a gentileman ever has to put up with people being stupid.
PMS is not an excuse, it may make things worse than usual but it's no excuse to hold a grudge this long over something so stupid. Something else is the root of this and she needs to be mature and speak up whats wrong.
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Fuck the flowers, if she wants to be grumpy then leave her to herself. Spend the money on a Quarterpounder and a movie (I go fishing). Let her stay home, watch tv and grumble all by herself. Of course I get the same treatment when I am grumpy.
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Bad idea, will lead to a divorce and nothing more.
Anyways... just my $.02