Does she have a personality disorder?
/relives memories of an ex.../
That is very excessive and uncalled for. You should tell her that she isn't being fair to you. For her to be upset there needs to be two things present: A) prior knowledge that what you were going to do would be a serious transgression, and B) an unwillingness on your part to communicate about it.
She's taking something out on you that seems to have nothing to do with you. Does she over-react a lot to other things? Does she have trouble trusting people? Has being with her typically been an emotional roller-coaster ride with great ups and terrible downs?...
I think more information is needed to understand what is really going on here.
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