/smack you upside the head/
You asked a PMSing woman, who warned you that she was PMSing to do manual labor? Do you not see the problem here? No matter how right you may have been, no matter how innocent you are, you are the man, you are the husband and you are wrong.
Bring her home flowers tomorrow and tell her you were wrong and try and sound like you mean it and remind her that you do indeed love her.
All will be forgiven
(until next month)