maleficent

Some boys/young men/old men are completely clueless to the obvious. There's probably no doubt that he loves you, however, it's probably never occcured to him that you'd like a ring, or it's somethin that he should do.

They need some subtle coaching, if they aren't doing something on their own. (generally it's wardrobe help, but in some cases it's gifting help too)

When he gets you a gift, for your birthday or holidays, what does he give you? Would he think to get you a ring? (my father, after 45 years of being married to my mother, thinks nothing wrong with getting her a roasting pan for her birthday - he needs gifting help - some fellas do)

If there's something you want, like a commitment, or even a promise ring, then you should be comfortable enough to talk about it and ask for it.

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