I asked for one once -- got it, and never felt like he truly meant it.
The one from Lebell was from him. He chose it, he intiated it, he even gave it to me on his timing. It has great meaning.
My advice, be willing to ask for what you want; and understand he has the right to say no or to intrepret the request how he sees fit. (For example, maybe a necklace will symbolize his current commitment to you, not a ring.) Do not pressure as you want a gift from his heart not from his guilt.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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