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It sounds like the ring itself is less important to you than the gesture: that he thought about it himself and chose it, etc., that it's a sign of your commitment. It sounds like you're looking for proof - proof that he's committed, that he loves you, I don't know. But chances are it's not about the ring. I think you should look and see if he's giving you what you want, and if not, have a discussion about it. Getting a ring won't fix it if he's not meeting your needs. If he IS giving you what you want (love, commitment, feeling cherished) then it's just a symbol, and why not ask for it? Guys don't always realize that these things mean something to women, and there's no shame in hinting about it. But be sure what it is that you want: some "feeling" from him that you're not getting, or just a pretty trinket.
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