I'm almost afraid to put this here but, if you left the windchime on the counter for 2 months that makes me wonder about the cleaning the house thing....
The "I think he should do the projects I asked him to do" statement sounds a little control freaky from my perspective.
I like to please my wife and I try to accomodate her as well as I can, honey do's and all but if my priorities and her priorities diverge the honey do's wait. I suspect if he did everything you asked you would come up with new things to keep him busy.
The lists they never end
From my perspective this sounds like the never ending battle for control.....just try a job jar at my house and you'll be asking me to sweep up broken glass and scraps of paper.
You really have to find a way to make him think it should be one of his priorities...like he thought of it even...I even like the do it poorly acouple of times route..that always gets me.
Good luck
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"Iron rusts with disuse, stagnant water loses its purity and in cold water freezes. Even so does inaction sap the vigor of the mind"
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