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believe it or not, i'm still good friends with all of my exgirlfriends except one, and she was an immature druggie... so i can't really relate to all these "it's over, forget her completely" statements that everyone is making.
it will take some time and some space for you two to be able to hang out again just as friends... could be a month, could be half a year... it all depends on how quickly each of you move on. considering she's your "first love", however... it will probably take a little longer, and that's okay. just do what feels natural and take it very slow.
i don't recommend calling her or hanging out with her for a while... but if she contacts you, don't just blow her off, show her the respect she deserves. after all, she's going through the same thing as you.
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